KAIZEN FOR LIFE

I’m not suggesting to search for friends here, I am suggesting that you are open and observant of the people around you who may enter your life or be around it that could be positive influences in your life. Look in environments where you are bettering yourself and working your hardest and you will find more like minded people. For example, in your gym, your Pilates class, running group, book club, cooking club, dance lessons, work, side hustle, even in a cafe doing work.

Be open to the people around you and how they impact you. Go towards good energy and vibes and stay clear from bad energy and vibes. Be picky. Don’t be friends with people for the sake of it. You have the free will to choose who gets to be part of your life. The people around you have such s significant impact on who you are and how you act as a person.

By surrounding yourself with people who have no ambition, no passion for anything, don’t show any love or gratitude, are unkind or even malicious at times – you will merge and fall into the same category as them.

Search for the opposite of those people – observe how they make you better, push you forward, inspire you and support you and make you feel better about yourself. Find those people and hold onto them.