KAIZEN FOR LIFE

I was just thinking about this question and I think I have come to the conclusion that every man I’ve encountered / who has been a apart of my life has had a positive impact. Now hear me out….

There have been men who have treated me well, men who have sometimes treated me well, men who never really treated me well, men who confused me, men who helped me, men who made me feel like shit, men who helped me discover who I truly was, men who were never there for me when I needed them, men who taught me many valuable lessons, men who showed me I was cared for and loved, men who changed my life. Now you may think a lot of that sounds negative. But that is not how I view it.

I view all of those experiences, situations, relationships, connections as positive. I view them this way because even if they didn’t have a positive impact at the time – in the long run they have. They helped me learn what I didn’t want from a man, how to be independent, how important it was to loved myself first, to set boundaries, to say no, to listen, to realise the difference between men and women, to stand up for myself, to not accept any treatment I don’t deserve, to strive to be better snd choose better partners or friends. Men have taught me how shit they can be and also how amazing they can be. Men are all different, but you can learn something from each of them.