
Growing and changing can hurt. It can involve cutting ties with people you never thought you would be cutting ties with, adopting new beliefs you never dreamed you’d believe, quitting old habits you’re familiar and comfortable with and adopting new ones, disappointing people around you because you’re not living up too their expectations etc.
It is easy to start changing and experience these things and think oh I shouldn’t be going through this, this isn’t right. I’m here to tell you it is right and it’s simply the not so glamorous and fun part of growing, healing and changing for the better.
At the end of the day, your growth and happiness is entirely your responsibility. YES I KNOW THATS SCARY AND HORRIBLE AND YOU WANT TO TELL ME TO F@CK OFF AND BLAME SOMEONE OR SOMETHING ELSE. But it’s the truth. The sooner you realise that it is, the sooner you can change your life for the better.
Once you make the decision to change, you must keep moving forward, no matter how small the step – make it forward – towards your goals and dreams. You’re going to fall and collapse – do it forward – fall forward.
Change may not be easy and it will test you, confuse you, make you question yourself, the world and those around you. But it is necessary and it is a long term goal. So you must persevere through the pains of change, they are just like physical growing pains – the pain will lessen more and more over time – not because the pain is any LESS but because the pain has changed and you have changed.
PERSEVERE THROUGH THE PAIN.
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