KAIZEN FOR LIFE

Read it again.

Again.

A few more times.

You CANNOT change things by loving them harder.

This may not be what you want to hear but it may be exactly what you need to hear.

Toxic love has been so romanticised in our generation – I’m here to break the truth to you. Toxic love is not romantic. Now we all may have slightly different definitions of toxic love and what it means / looks like for us, but we all get the general picture. Toxic love is loving someone but knowing you were not meant to be – you do not help each other to grow. You don’t bring the best out in each other. You hurt one another. You feel like you cannot live without that person – your whole being is dependant on them and that is exactly why it is not meant to be. You are your own person, your relationship should not be WHO YOU ARE or what you live for. Live for yourself and create and grow a relationship that betters you, supports you, lifts you up, motivates and inspires you.

Toxic love is not romantic. And if you’re reading this and thinking well how do I know if this is me. Be real with yourself. Deep down you will know. In your heart you will now. In your gut you will know. And knowing is the first step, the hardest part – the realisation. After that it’s down to you to realise your worth and what you want from life and cultivate a relationship and beautiful love that aligns with WHO YOU ARE.

Toxic love is not romantic.